We often hear about work/life balance, but what about balancing your life between being a stepmom and that of being a wife/partner? Wouldn’t it be great to have it all nice and neatly organized so that you have a sense of calm and stability?
Having balance in your life means that you can do what needs to be done to keep your stepfamily life functioning and still feel you have time for personal fulfillment, to do the things you really enjoy and want to do. Having balance is the ideal blend of those two areas.
To create more balance in your life, become aware of how you’re spending your time. Notice where you’re satisfied, where you may be imbalance and what you’d like to change.
Next create your own vision of a balanced day. How do you aspire your ideal day to look while enjoying the ideal combination of being a stepmom and wife/partner?
Identify the obstacles that interfere with your pursuit for balance such as your own thoughts, words and actions. Also look at other obstacles such as your stepkids’ schedules and actions or the ex-wife’s opinions about what you do in your home.
And finally, put it all into ‘action’. Awareness, desire and identifying your obstacles are important, but to move toward balance, you need to take action.
Creating life balance is not a destination. It is a dynamic state of awareness and choices. Try these simple tips to help move you toward the life you desire.
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