The Process

My Approach

Being in a steprelationship differs greatly from a traditional relationship in that children from a previous relationship are involved. This makes the entire family dynamic operate on a whole different level. Having been in a steprelationship, and having taken many years to come to understand how to deal with steprelation issues, I know first hand how it helps individuals and couples get results in a very short period of time.

I use several models including the Stepfamily Foundation model that has an 84% success rate. As long you both are committed to making it work, you will have the necessary skills and tools to work on your relationship and have success.

This coaching method works because all individuals involved are expected to be committed to working to make this relationship a success. As a coach, I will provide you with these tools and expert guidance to help you have a successful steprelationship.

How It Works

We’ll start off looking at the structure of your unique family dynamics and see where some of the issues are. Then, we’ll look at communication tools as well as ways to help resolve conflict. We’ll identify individual roles within the family and in the couple. I’ll teach you negotiation tools and help you establish your set of House Rules which are very important. We’ll look at what types of expectations are realistic and which ones are not.

This approach is an action-oriented approach that requires individuals and couples to complete homework. Active participation is part of the success of this approach. There are no guarantees, just as there are none in life, but this is a great opportunity to learn a new way to function and succeed in a steprelationship, to become a cohesive team.

Coaching–You are not alone, I am here to help

Coaching is done either in person, via telephone or Skype. The different methods of coaching allows you to work with me on your steprelationships from anywhere. Meetings are scheduled ahead of time, and discussions are confidential. During our sessions, email consultations can support you if and when problems arise. I am available to guide you every step of the way.

Results You Can Expect

Coaching gives you proven and down-to-earth tools, goals that are doable, using clear examples you can refer to in everyday life. By having someone who has been there and understand where you are coming from, you CAN improve and heal your steprelationships.  And not merely surviving, but actually THRIVING in your relationship.